So yeah pretty much the article is about college men being AFRAID to even look at women because they think thats sexual harassment.
But that’s proof of rape culture, according to feminists.
College Guy: “I’d love to go out, get drunk and get laid, but honestly…I’d rather not risk being accused of rape and have my entire future snatched away.” Feminist: “Basically what you’re saying is that you can’t control your rapist urges.”
College Guy: “No, I would never rape a girl. I just know there are quite a few guys out there who have been falsely accused and even after the girl recanted, admitting she was trying to cover up infidelity because she didn’t want to get dumped, the college still expelled him and wouldn’t let him back. It could even happen if a girl’s feelings simply get hurt. I don’t wanna risk it.”
Feminist: “You victim blaming piece of shit, 1 in 5 women are raped every day and you’re worried about your fucking reputation. Maybe if you taught men to fucking control themselves they wouldn’t have to be afraid to be around a girl!”
It is not about who pays for the date. It is not about who moves the couch. It is not about who kills the bugs. It is not about who cooks the dinner. It’s not even about who stays home with the kids, as long as the decision was made together, after thinking carefully about your situation and coming to an agreement that makes sense for your particular marriage and family.
It is about making sure that nobody ever has to do anything by “default” because of their gender. The stronger person should move the couch. The person who enjoys cooking more, has more time for it, and/or is better at it should do the cooking. Sometimes the stronger person is male, sometimes not. Sometimes the person who is best suited for cooking is female, sometimes not. You should do what works.
But it is also about letting people know that it is okay to change. If you’re a woman who wants to become stronger, that’s great. If you’re a man who wants to learn how to cook, that’s also great. You might start out with a relationship where the guy opens all the jars and the girl cooks all the meals, but you might find that you want to try something else. So try it.”—4 ignorant delusions people have about feminism (via theyknowthatyouknow)
“Don’t attach yourself to anyone who shows you the least bit of attention because you’re lonely. Loneliness is the human condition. No one is ever going to fill that space. The best you can do is know yourself… know what you want.”—Janet Fitch, White Oleander (via wordsnquotes)